Eating Ice Cream at 7:30 a.m. and Other Advice for Parents

West Shore’s Dave Lesko has spent 38 years as a guidance counselor, 43 years as a baseball umpire, 41 years as a father and 11 as a grandfather, as well as umpteen years of talking with scores of young people about their futures.   With those credentials, we figure he had something helpful to say to parents who want to focus their high schoolers, lovingly but pointedly, on the future, which we adults call real life.  Here’s Dave’s advice, delivered confidently yet humbly.

“First,” says Dave, “you have to give them what you don’t think you have much of: time.  Let me repeat, it’s all about time.  We’re all busy.  Being busy means we make assumption like our young people are eating reasonably well and sleeping well.  Is that true?  Maybe we assume that giving them lunch money, taking them to soccer practice after school – you know the routine – is caring for them. 
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